Thanks for visiting my website. My manager and I look forward to
working with you or meeting you after performances. On this page, I thought I'd
tell you a little more about myself, and share a few things that don't usually
make it into my biography. Consider this the "tell me more about yourself"
portion of an interview, or where our conversation might lead at the reception
after the curtain comes down.
Summer
2008: I just finished my first year in Tuscaloosa, Alabama where I set up a
second home to be the Director of Opera Theatre at the University of Alabama.
It's been exciting. I thought it would be a huge adjustment, but my life really
hasn't changed much, other than now owning a car and a townhouse with a little
garden (pictures at left). I still love New York, and am there often,
but there is life elsewhere, I've learned. I love my job: great students
(who are getting work in apprentice programs and workshops around the country),
terrific faculty colleagues, and I still get to sing and direct a fair amount on
the road, armed with recruiting pamphlets, of course. I sang "When the
midnight choo choo leaves for Alabam'" as a personal anthem this year. I'm
collecting Alabama songs. One of my best friends gets married in Birmingham in May
(no…I didn't make him do that. It just happens to be where his future wife is
from, which means it's right down the road from me.), then I'm off to Iowa to
direct The Gondoliers for the Young Artist Program at Cedar Rapids Opera
Theatre, then back to New York in July for intense dissertation work. Life is
good!
Next, my last name. Yup,
it’s a tough one -- not your every-day surname unless, of course, you’re
from upstate New York and even then, it’s pretty rare.
My name
-- HOUGHTALING -- pronounced HO-tail-ing, like
“wholesaling” -- is a Dutch
name meaning money master, or accountant.
It’s an old spelling, obviously, with lots of other variations, such as
Hooghteling and the later Ellis-Island type shortening Hotaling, but my
father’s family has spelled our name this way since the late 18th
century. (The Microsoft Word spell
check function offers "Hightailing" as a correction for Houghtaling,
but that's not an acceptable variation, although I can move fast if I
need to.) I’m picky about the
spelling and pronunciation of my last name (“Paul” has never been
mispronounced, that I know of, anyway). It’s
my father’s name.
I have some interesting genealogical material tracing my
father’s lineage to Mathys Coenradsten Houghtaling who came from Holland to
New Netherlands in the early 17th century and settled in Coxsackie,
New York. A few generations later,
my ancestors wound up not far away in Albany, New York where my father was born.
I was born and raised in Troy, New York, essentially across
the Hudson River from Albany. That’s
where my grandmother on my mother’s side, Ellen Stewart, arrived as a young
girl from County Antrim, Ireland, around 1905 and where my Dad, George, met my
mother, Jean Henry (daughter of John Henry), square dancing. I don’t square dance, but I did go to the 8th grade dance at
P.S. #14 in Troy.
Lots of people who've seen me perform in operetta ask about
my twirling. Umbrellas, canes,
axes, whatever. It's from Drum Corps.
My earliest memories of performing (other than singing "I am the Wee
Falorie Man" in first grade with an Irish brogue!) were with the Avant
Garde Drum & Bugle Corps from Saratoga Springs, New York.
I played all sorts of small-bore brass bugles (piston/rotary and then
two-valve) and taught myself how to twirl a rifle.
My parents thought it would be a useless skill, especially when I dented
their ceilings tossing the thing up in the air, but now people pay me to do it.
I get my parents comp tickets, though, to make up for the ceiling dents.
I’m a Yankees fan.
My
father is a Mets fan. We watch
interleague games together by phone. I
wish I had been into baseball as a kid. When I’m in New York City, I try to
watch the Yankees at The Piper’s Kilt, an Irish sports pub in Inwood (northern
Manhattan). If you’re ever in New
York, you should stop in and meet Mike, Tommy, and Jose, great bartenders.
I have a cool family.
None of them sing, but they all cook, which I don’t.
My mother taught me how to clean a kitchen, which remains the only skill
I bring to a dinner party.
Below are a few pictures of me and my family.
Thanks
again.
-- Paul
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| Me in
Kindergarten (Scroll down to the bottom of this
page to see my friend Jim's attempt to improve this photo through his
newly-acquired Photoshop abilities.)
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P.S. # 14, Troy,
NY, Grade 1. I’m on the top
right.
If you’re in this picture
and you see this, e-mail me,
especially if you’re the guy with the bandage.
I forgot what that was about. (Click on the picture to see it
larger)
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My sisters Kathy,
Lori and I circa 1965.
I loved that
suit. It stopped fitting just last
year.
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My sisters and me,
2001.
My sisters are extraordinary.
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My Mom and me with
my niece, Alison in 1986.
This is my
favorite picture of my mother and me
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My Grandmother
Ellen Stewart Henry with my mother
and her dog Rover (I didn’t make that up)
in 1932, Troy, NY
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My father, George
Houghtaling,
in the U.S. National Guard, 1952
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| Kayaking
in Austin, TX, Summer 2005
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| Still
looks like me! |